How to split living costs with your roommate
Take the stress out of your living situation with these 5 tips to better manage expenses with roommates.
Roommates aren’t just for college students, particularly in regions of the country with extremely high housing costs. Figuring out how to equitably split the rent is one concern, but what about food, cleaning supplies, and other items that may be shared?
Maybe you love living with others, or maybe you see managing expenses with a roommate as a necessary evil until you’re ready to comfortably afford your own place. Whatever the reason you share your bathroom and kitchen with roomies, it can translate into at least one positive thing: real savings.
Just ask Josh Hastings, the founder of a personal finance blog, and his wife Lauren. They own their home and estimate they save $7,500 per year by living with a roommate.
“It helps us with our mortgage and paying off student loans,” Hastings says. “We decided that to subsidize some costs, why not make use of our spare space?”
But that doesn’t mean there aren’t financial challenges to living with others. Aside from remembering who cleaned the kitchen last, one of the biggest challenges of communal living is figuring out how to split living costs with your roommate.
What is the best way to split expenses with a roommate? Here are 5 tips to keep everyone happy and on the same page:
1. Decide together how to split costs
To manage expenses with a roommate, you have to determine how to fairly divide up household costs.
Ben Huber, a personal finance blogger, believes it’s important to make sure everyone agrees on how to share costs—even roommates who move into an already established household.
“Each time a new tenant moved in, we sat down early on and tried to come up with general guidelines that would work for everyone involved,” he says. For his three-person arrangement, the deal is to share common household items and split the costs three ways.
However, one of Huber’s key tips for splitting bills with roommates is to avoid splitting the cost of bigger ticket items because of the complications it can create if someone moves out. If you’re furnishing a living room, for example, Huber recommends that everyone buy one or two items that they can own and take with them when it’s time to move out.
Hastings and his wife have slightly different tips for managing your shared expenses with roommates. Rather than split the bills down to the penny when they come in, the Hastings include a fixed amount to cover the cost of utilities in the rent they charge their roommate. They also use that fixed amount to cover shared household items, including cleaning products.
But they draw the line at personal items like blenders or other specialty kitchen tools. “When it comes to personal items, we don’t split costs,” Hastings says. “It is just easier this way in the long run.”
2. Develop an easy way to track expenses
Huber, who estimates he saves $10,000 a year by living with roommates, says one of his most effective tips for splitting bills with roommates is to track everything each person spends on shared expenses.
To better manage expenses with his roommates, he documents each person’s purchases in a spreadsheet and evenly divides the expenses between the three of them at the end of each month. If someone picks up paper towels on the way home from work, for example, he knows he’ll get reimbursed and that everyone is contributing fairly.
“We all hold a single utility under our name,” Huber adds, “and then e-transfer the difference in our utility payments to one another’s bank accounts on the fifth day of each month.”