8 ways to spend less on date night
These cheap date night ideas for couples can keep your relationship and your finances healthy.
Whether you’re cozying up on the couch together with a bottle of wine or headed out to the trendy restaurant everyone’s talking about, date night is an essential part of most relationships.
“Date nights are important because they give new couples a chance to get to know each other and established couples a chance to have fun or blow off some steam after a rough week,” says Holly Shaftel, a relationship expert and certified dating coach. “Penciling in a regular date can ensure that you make time for each other when your jobs and other aspects of your life might keep you busy.”
There’s just one small snag. Or, maybe it’s a big one. Date nights can get expensive.
When you’re focused on improving your finances as a couple, finding ways to spend less on date night is a no-brainer. But you may be wondering: How can we save money on date night and still get that much-needed break from the daily grind?
There are plenty of ways to conserve cash by bringing just a little creativity into the mix. Here are eight of the best ways to save money on date night:
1. Share common interests on the cheap
When Shaftel and her boyfriend were in the early stages of their relationship, they learned they were both active in sports. They were able to plan their date nights around low-cost (and sometimes free) sports activities, like hitting the driving range or playing tennis at their local park.
If you’re trying to find ways to spend less on date night, you can plan your own free or low-cost date nights around your and your partner’s shared interests. If you’re both avid readers, for example, even a simple afternoon browsing your local library’s shelves or a cool independent bookstore can make for a memorable time. If you’re both adventurous, check into your local sporting goods stores for organized hikes, stargazing outings, or mountaineering workshops. They often post a schedule of events that are free, low-cost, or discounted for members.
2. Create a low-budget date night bucket list
Dustyn Ferguson, founder of a personal finance blog, suggests using the bucket-list approach to find the best ways to save money on date night. To gather ideas, make it a game. At your next group gathering, ask guests to write down a fun, low-budget date night idea. The host then gets to read and keep all of the suggestions. When Ferguson and his girlfriend did this at a friend’s party, they submitted camping on the beach, which didn’t cost a dime.
“Go out for a nice dinner one week, and the next, go for a drive and bring a picnic.”
To make your own date night bucket list with the best ways to save money on date night, sit down with your partner and come up with cheap date night ideas for couples. Consider activities that you normally wouldn’t think to do. Spur ideas by making it a challenge—for instance, who can come up with the most ideas of dates you can do from the couch? A few good ones to get your list started: have fun with social game apps (apps for lip sync battles are a real thing), grab a pencil or watercolors for an artistic endeavor, or work on a puzzle. If you’re looking for even more ways to spend less on date night, take the question to social media and see what turns up.